How to use Journaling as a Transformational Coaching Tool (with 5 Keys to Success) | Lynda Monk

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As a coach, we need to have powerful tools for transformation in our coaching toolkit. And one of my favourite tools for personal growth, well-being and cultivating new insights is journaling.

I use this transformational practice both in my own life and in my coaching work with clients. For me, journaling is more than a tool: I consider it central to my “Journal Coaching” work with clients.

What is Journal Coaching?

While Journaling is a storytelling practice, a reflective practice, a healing practice and personal growth practice all in one.

Journal Coaching focuses on using journaling as the key tool for helping clients increase self-awareness and take inspired action aligned with their values, dreams and goals.

Which means you are Journal Coaching whenever you use journaling in a session to help clients express their thoughts, feelings, beliefs and experiences through language and personal story.

When to use Journaling in Coaching

I use Journal Coaching with individual clients and groups and in workshops and retreats. It helps clients deepen their skills in the areas of self-reflection, goal setting and decision making.

For example, it can be helpful to use journaling as a coaching tool when a client wants to:

• Gain insight for a life decision
• Find more clarity in some area of their life
• Develop confidence and learn to trust their own inner wisdom
• Get a sense of direction
• Deeply know, grow and care for themselves through personal writing

We human beings have both a hunger and a fundamental need to listen to our inner worlds while paying attention to our outer worlds, in order to enhance our physical, emotional, psychological and spiritual well-being. As simple or complex as this may sound, it is a learned skill to attend to one’s inner life and to practice the art of self-awareness. ¹

Why use Journaling as a Coaching Tool

There are many reasons to use journaling as a coaching tool. For example, journaling helps your clients:

• Slow down, pause and reflect in a meaningful way
• Access greater inner wisdom, clarity and insights
• Process thoughts and feelings
• Tap into feelings of calm and inner peace
• Feel more inspired and motivated
• Tend to self-care in nourishing and replenishing ways
• Listen to the whispers of truth and well-being within
• Attune more fully with present moment awareness where all things are possible

Journal writing helps clients remember their own resilience and inner resources, including their deep well of wisdom within. It also reminds clients that they are creative, resourceful and whole, and they are always the experts on their own lived experiences.

And it’s important to remember that journaling is an empowering practice: whatever your clients write is right.

Here are 5 Keys to Successful Journal Coaching

1. Try journaling yourself first

Be sure you have some first-hand experience with journaling before you bring it into your coaching.

Journaling is a subtle and profound practice that can bring a lot of information and emotion forth for our clients. It’s good to have a felt experience of this as a coach as it will make sharing journaling as a coaching tool more helpful and effective for your clients.

2. Explain what transformational journaling is and why you’re suggesting it as a coaching tool

Briefly explain to clients what transformational journaling (sometimes called therapeutic journaling) is, and share some of the many benefits it can offer.

I love this definition by Kate Thompson, author of Therapeutic Journal Writing: An Introduction for Professionals. The bolding is my own for emphasis and she says:

Therapeutic (transformational) journal writing implies the conscious intent and deliberate attempt to write in ways which will produce change, healing and growth. It is reflective (thinking about, pondering, exploring) and a reflexive (integrating and using the awareness gained from reflecting) practice which can help with greater understanding of the self and the world and the self-in-the world.

This type of journaling is about both awareness and action.

Writing helps our clients explore their thoughts and feelings; this generates greater self-awareness, which can be the foundation for taking action that is grounded in the authentic wisdom from within.

3. Offer guided journaling activities

Take your clients through some guided Journal Coaching experiences so they can use their journaling as a key tool for growth.

It’s very helpful to facilitate a guided journaling session with journaling prompts so that clients have some direction when going to the page for growth and transformation. This is more effective than simply suggesting that a client journal.

Kathleen Adams, an expert in journal therapy, teaches that three things are very important when using journaling: structure, pacing and containment.

All three elements can be achieved through the types of journaling techniques and exercises you suggest to clients.²

For example, free writing without a time limit and no journaling prompt has no pacing and little structure or containment. On the other hand, a timed writing using a journaling prompt that flows from areas you’re exploring with your client in your coaching with them offers all three.

How to offer structure and containment with journaling prompts To be most effective, journaling prompts should be relevant to the client. So if you’re working with your client in the area of their health and wellness, you might offer the following journaling prompts for your client to pick from: When you think of your self-care at this time in your life, what do you notice? How do you feel? How do you nourish your emotional, physical, psychological and spiritual well-being? What are your self-care practices in each of these key dimensions of holistic well-being? What parts of your self-care are you proud of and feeling good about? What about your self-care is calling to you for more attention? What would be deeply nourishing to you at this time?

4. Use your client’s journal writing as content within your coaching

When integrating journaling into your coaching, it’s always important to give your clients choice. In other words, there should never be any forced sharing of their writing.

However, you can provide options and invite your client to share:

• What they wrote
• A line or two or a small section of what they wrote
• What it was like to do the writing

As the coach, you’re actively listening and receiving what they share.

Do not critique the writing in any way, but simply receive it as information for the coaching you’re doing. 

5. Explore new insights and possible action steps that flow from their journaling

Finally, to make Journal Coaching truly effective, it’s important to reflect—and maybe even take action.

Ask the client:

• What they notice about what they wrote
• What insights or new awareness might have emerged from their journaling
• What action, if any, they would like to take in the direction of their goals flowing from these insights

There is a Spanish proverb which says: there is no road, we make the road as we walk. I would say the same thing about journal writing—we make the path as we write. Christina Baldwin

Wrap-up

Journal Coaching is fun, creative and hugely beneficial for our clients.

You make journaling a coaching tool by treating it in a thoughtful, strategic, heart-centered and useful way within your coaching.

So I invite you to play with the many possibilities, benefits and breakthroughs that journaling can offer in your coaching—and in your own life as a coach.

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References 1 From my book Life Source Writing: A Reflective Journaling Practice for Self-Discovery, Self-Care, Wellness and Creativity. 2 For a deep dive into a vast collection of journaling activities, prompts, techniques, ideas and inspiration, you can turn to the book, co-edited by Eric Maisel and me, called Transformational Journaling for Coaches, Therapists, and Clients: A Complete Guide to the Benefits of Personal Writing (Routledge, 2021).